Lol...oh, Nimoy. Either he was delusional, didn't actually pay attention, or just being professional. If Quinto had "taken Spock to somewhere fantastic" I am pretty sure I would have recognized it as fantastic. It wasn't fantastic.
Let's look at Man of Steel for a minute. The die-hard Superman fans were hugely up in arms over the portrayal of Superman, particularly about the whole unchecked cityscape destruction thing. I, as a person with only casual Superman interest, wasn't really bothered by this and didn't hate the film.
Is one of us (them or me) wrong? I don't think so. But I do think they have a bit more skin in the game than me, and therefore MORE of a right to say which direction they would rather see Superman steered in. I have no problem with yielding them that right. And yes, it's an oversimplification to say "them". In reality this is a logical fallacy of "no true Scotsman" flavor -- I said "die-hard Superman fans", but how do you determine who they are? Were they *all* feeling the same way? Heck no. But anyway, my point is, I am happy to let them debate over it and choose the direction somehow while I just sit here waiting for the next Superman film.
So now coming back to Star Trek. First of all, we here know very well the "no true Trekkie" problem. Because we all have different ideas of what Trek should be like, even when we forget everything after VOY ever happened we don't all agree. For me (and many others), it's a bit of a "religion". Taken as a whole, Trek, the greatest secular humanist gospel ever told...please don't disturb that part of it. Let it remain a beacon of hope for how a post-superstitious/religious human society might work and be possible. In essence that's the main thing I care about, really. Others have different things they care about. But one thing is sure, we all really care. So it should be up to us to debate it...meanwhile the outsiders probably don't care that much as long as it's entertaining.
I don't really know what my point is and I just kind of jumped in after only skimming a few comments above but hey, there it is.